tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42962179162492607472024-02-18T20:09:30.756-08:00Every Step of the WayThis is my perspective on life following the tragic accident of my daughter, Nicole, in New York in August 2008. It may not be the life we had planned, but it's a life that's full and rich and wacky and wild, and I wouldn't trade it for anything!
(To learn more, go to www.youcantstopthisdancer.com).
God has been with us every step of the way, and I've gained a lot of insight while on this journey that I hope to continue sharing with you. Thanks for reading...enjoy!Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.comBlogger199125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-48481360964243528682017-04-29T22:25:00.001-07:002017-04-29T22:25:35.267-07:00Unconditional Love<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There are kids we bring into the world, and "kids" who just find their way into our lives. I have had both. The kids I bought into this world were born six years apart...does that tell you anything? Over the years, we'e had a dog here or there, the kind of "kid" who wasn't desired, wasn't asked into our home, but nonetheless, made their way in and straight to our hearts.<br />
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The longest running of those fur-babies was a motley little peekapoo named <b><span style="font-size: large;">Coco</span></b>. He was about a year old when he began breaking free from the side of a house several blocks over in our neighborhood and somehow made his way to our house. We put a sign up at the subdivision entrance, and the neighbors came and picked up the dog. Turns out the little girl in the home when to school with our son, Joe. Time after time, the mutt continued to show up at our house, and we'd load him up in the car and drive him back home.<br />
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One day he showed up, covered in mud, which he promptly shook all over my kitchen floor. After hosing him off and wrapping him in a towel, I once again drove him home, both kids in the car. The dog's owner, the lady of the house, wasn't excited to see him. Instead, she put her hands on her hips and said, "do you want to just keep that dog?" My kids squealed with delight, screaming "yes, yes, yeeessss!!!!" "Tell you what," she said, "give me fifty bucks to cover the shots he's already had and he's yours." Before I really thought it through, Coco was ours. He lived with us 15 years before going out one night, never to return. He was blind, deaf and he limped. The vet said that old dogs will go build a "nest" of sorts, covering themselves up with leaves and pine straw before curling up to die. Our hearts were broken.<br />
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Not long before Coco left us, <b><span style="font-size: large;">Roxie </span></b>entered our hearts.<br />
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Joe used his high school graduation money to buy her from a "friend." He said she was full-blooded boxer. The vet said otherwise, advising us she was approximately six months old, probably mixed with a pit bull, and she had mange. Much money, a destroyed couch, countless shoes, computer and phone cords later, Roxie ended up being the love of my life. She is ten years old now, but she is still full of life, probably because of our latest acquisition, <b><span style="font-size: large;">Paco</span></b> the Chiweenie (part chihuahua/part dauchsund).<br />
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Paco was found at the Country Cub of Jackson. Seemed he hung out there all day Memorial Day before last, and at the end of the day, no one claimed him. Larry brought him home and we made every effort to find his owners. Days and weeks went by, and it became apparent he was ours. Roxie was not very welcoming to the new pup, but she learned to love him. That's a good thing, because Paco really loves her.<br />
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So, now that my nest is empty of my children, we do coexist with two of the funniest, sweetest pups I can imagine. Their personalities are both hilarious. Roxie is neurotic about everything, barks at the UPS and FedEx guys like she'd tear them apart if she could just get past that front door, and she wants to talk more than any dog I've ever seen. She is very vocal about many things. Paco can turn from the sweetest love bug to Cujo in no time, baring and gnashing teeth, but back to his loving ways as soon as soon as I start rubbing those radar ears. They love us unconditionally, we we love them back. Our nest isn't so empty afterall...<div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-33429664695880377732017-04-27T11:12:00.000-07:002017-04-27T11:12:38.964-07:00Getting old rocks! I used to dread old age. The word "old" just had a negative connotation. That was, until I got old.<br />
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I don't think of myself as being old, even though I will turn 60 on August 4 of this year (mark your calendars!). I still think and feel the same way I did at 30, 40 and 50. I love to do the things I always have, which includes having lots of fun whenever possible. But every now and then, I look in the mirror and see my mother looking back at me. Not that it's a bad thing, but it is often an unexpected thing. Because in my mind, I look the way I did decades ago.<br />
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My father recently turned 90.<br />
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That's a significant milestone, I suppose, since the average lifespan of an American male is 76.4 years. (In case you're wondering, the life expectancy of a woman is 81.2 years.) So, my dad has cheated death for 13.6 years. He is very tech-saavy and has both an iPhone and and iPad in addition to his fancy touch-screen Dell desktop computer. He loves Facebook and recently took a Facebook quiz that tells how long you'll live. He proudly announced he'd live to see age 99. Why not?!<br />
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Last weekend Larry and I went to a music festival in the Mississippi Delta (Clarksdale, to be exact). It was the tenth annual Juke Joint Festival, but it was our first time to attend. My experience with music festivals is that they are crowded with lots of lines to stand in for everything from refreshments to restrooms. I have been to my share of festivals over the years, but I guess it was that small part of me that was feeling a little bit old that resisted when I was asked by my friend Jonni Webb if Larry and I would like to go to the Juke Joint Festival this year. She and her fella, Tom Pittman, attended last year for the first time. Jonni (a potter, look up her work at <a href="http://jrwebbart.com/" target="_blank">http://jrwebbart.com/</a>) and they had a blast. We relented and made hotel reservations months ago and when the weekend came, we packed up and drove the two and a half hours north through the cotton fields to Clarksdale.<br />
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Good thing we did! We had a wonderful weekend! Not really knowing what to expect, our expectations weren't that high. Even if they had been, the festival would have exceeded them! I'm not going to give every detail, but suffice it to say we heard some fantastic music by some amazingly talented musicians, saw some wonderful artwork, ate some delicious food in the most unexpected places, and had an overall great time. (The liberal use of adjectives should give a good indication of how much we enjoyed ourselves!) Most of the musicians were older, as well, with the exception of a cutie from Columbia, South America, Carlos Elliott, Jr, who I hope is the future of the Blues.<br />
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One of the things that struck me the most was the plethora of old people in attendance. By old, I mean people in their 50s, 60s and 70s and beyond--not what I had expected to find at a music festival. I saw more men with long gray pony tails and women who, despite their wrinkles and silver hair, seemed so in their own skin. People weren't dressed to impress, because the fashion police weren't anywhere near Clarksdale. It was refreshing and relaxing to be around those folks. And even though I'm pushing 60, it took me a day or two to realize <i>I'M ONE OF THOSE FOLKS!</i><br />
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I would be afraid to take that Facebook quiz, fearful that I might not like what it says (as if it means anything anyway...). But I can see hanging out in the many music venues at the Juke Joint Festival at the age of 99, listening to Blues artists who may just be pushing the same age, assuming their hard-living ways haven't caught up with them. If this is what being old looks like, I'm all in!<br />
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While we missed the monkeys riding dogs (a reason to go back next year...) I did pick the winner at the pig races!<br />
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I don't know when I've ever been as excited about a change of season. It's been a COLD winter in the deep south, and I'm tired of coats, scarves and having Popsicle toes all the time.<br /><br />The pear trees have been blooming for over a week now, and beautiful daffodils are spotting the roadside just about everywhere I drive.<br />
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I dream of the day this summer when I'll be able to bite into a juicy tomato sandwich. Gluten-free diets be damned! Eating a "mater sammich" is a rite of summer! </div>
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My first job out of college was working as a copywriter at WDAM-TV in Hattiesburg. Every summer we looked forward to "Mater Sammich Day," the day when Dubbie White would bring a mess of his succulent red, ripe, juicy 'maters to the TV station and treat everyone to 'mater sammiches. </div>
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He's retired from the TV station now, but he's still gardening. This morning I got a Facebook message asking me to call him. I was worried something was wrong. In addition to not seeing him in over 25 years, I haven't even heard his voice. I called him and he exclaimed "Hey Red! How ya doin'?" He then said he wanted to host the Grand Finale of All Mater Sammich Days this summer, and wanted to know if I'd drive down to have a 'mater sammich. He's inviting all the old anchors and reporters and "a few of you copywriters just for fun." </div>
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Dubbie couldn't give me a date for the event. He said the tomatoes decide when that will happen, but it will most likely be sometime in July. I don't care if the Queen of England comes to town. I'll be hitting 49 South to Hattiesburg for a bite of heaven on white bread. </div>
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We've all had to wrestle with something, at some point in our lives. Whether it's faith, family, friends, or something else, we are sometimes challenged in ways that can often catch us by surprise.<br /><br />It happened to me on a sunny Sunday morning at 30,000 feet. I was absolutely blindsided.<br />
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If you've ever felt the same way, you will most likely relate to my <a href="http://karissaknoxsorrell.com/2014/03/19/wednesday-wrestling-every-step-of-the-way/" target="_blank">guest blog post</a>. Enjoy!<br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
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I've got things to do! I have a busy week! Plus, I have a book to write! </div>
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Finding the time to write a book is probably one of the biggest challenges for me. I've about decided I need to work on it first thing every day, before anyone else wakes up. Which means I need to get up early and get working. Of course, I decided that about the same time we lose an hour for daylight savings time. </div>
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For may of you, today is a day of partying and revelry before the solemn observance of Lent.<br />
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In addition to being Fat Tuesday, today is also <i><b>National Grammar Day</b></i>. I'm not making this up! National Grammar Day was established in 2008 by Martha Brockenbrough, founder of the Society for the Promotion of Good Grammar. I didn't make that up, either...they have their own little <a href="http://grammatically.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">blog</a>. And I'm one to believe there is a need for this in our world today. </div>
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Katherine Dillinger is a copy editor at CNN, and there is a fun interview with her today on the <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2014/03/03/living/grammar-day-irpt/" target="_blank">CNN Living</a> website. Her two biggest pet peeves? Writers who use dashes instead of colons, and the use of the word "probe." Hmmm....colons and probe? Maybe she's overdue for a colonoscopy? (Sorry.)</div>
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I've had the pleasure of proofreading two books recently, both by good friends, and both excellent writers and grammarians. The first is by Diane Williams, professional storyteller and gifted fiber artist. </div>
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This is a fun, fun read no matter who you are! I strongly suggest you order your copy today! </div>
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The other is a work in progress, soon to be released on Amazon.com. Written by Belinda Stevens, it's a spoof of the infamous "Fifty Shades of Grey," but this particular story features the main character "Humphrey B" and his pals at the Doggie Bath. There's a lot of licking, sniffing, panting and growling in the book. More about that when it's released. Here's a photo of Belinda and "Hump."<br />
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On National Grammar Day, I feel free to say I'm a spelling, punctuation and overall grammar snob. I was fortunate to have some wonderful teachers in high school who stressed the importance of proper grammar and they taught me well. (I have to admit, however, that I hated every minute of it!)<br />
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Last year I had the pleasure of developing a curriculum for business writing with Tom Wagner of <a href="http://www.wagnercg.com/Home.aspx" target="_blank">Wagner Consulting Group</a>. We launched it in the fall for a group of electricians in Flowood, MS. I taught six men, ranging in age from 30 to 65, how to write more effective letters to clients. The first step was for them to identify their reason for writing the letter. What did they want to accomplish? They learned how to cut out the "fluff" and focus on the message. There was a strong emphasis on grammar. They had to write sample letters as homework between the three classes I taught (in three successive weeks). I watched with great pleasure as their confidence rose along with their writing skills.<br />
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There is power in the pen. When you have a bad customer service experience with a company, a carefully worded letter to the company president goes much further than a call to the black hole they call a customer service hotline. When someone does something worth noting, nothing means as much as a hand-written note telling them so. (Please note the use of the word "further" in this paragraph. Should it have been "farther" instead? I feel good about my word choice based on this explanation by Mignon Fogerty of the <a href="http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/education/grammar/further-versus-farther" target="_blank">Grammar Girls</a>.)<br />
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I am fortunate to be a member of a newly-formed writers group. We are all working on various forms of Creative Nonfiction, and in the coming months, we will read and critique each other's work. We call ourselves the Easy Writers, and we hijacked a logo from another group that we have adopted (there are only seven of us, so we probably won't print it up on t-shirts or anything...)<br />
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Before potentially thousands of readers read the works we've written, six sets of eyes will be scanning the copy for spelling, punctuation and grammar mistakes. Knowing that, I believe, will make my writing better.<br />
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So today, in celebration of National Grammar Day, please mind your spelling. Choose carefully when using they're/their/there and consider kindly the use of apostrophes when writing its/it's. The obsessive-compulsive editing freak in me will thank you.<br />
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As if Mardi Gras and National Grammar Day don't make for enough celebrating in one day, I have a special treat for you all! Today is also National Pancake Day, and the folks at IHOP are giving away <a href="http://www.ibtimes.com/national-pancake-day-2014-how-get-free-stack-pancakes-ihop-march-4-1558641" target="_blank">FREE PANCAKES</a> until 10pm tonight! The only thing they ask in return is that you make a donation to the <a href="http://childrensmiraclenetworkhospitals.org/" target="_blank">Children's Miracle Network</a>.<br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-41630165411873956392013-09-24T05:57:00.000-07:002013-09-24T05:57:56.574-07:00Clone Me!There was a time I was fascinated by odd scientific happenings. Like cloning. Remember <a href="http://www.animalresearch.info/en/medical-advances/151/cloning-dolly-the-sheep/" target="_blank">Dolly the sheep?</a> She was the first ever cloned animal, "created" in the mid-1990's. Dolly was a real media sensation, and she lived a very pampered life for a sheep. <div>
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Lately, I've wished more than once that I could clone myself. If only there were two--or three--of me, I would be able to be more available to my family and friends. I could accomplish more. And I wouldn't have the stressful feeling of being torn much of the time.</div>
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The other day, my phone rang. It was Joe, my college kid. I don't have an opportunity to talk to him often, as he is extremely busy with classes, studying, fraternity and football. And in that particular phone call, he didn't want anything...other than to talk. He was telling me about the upcoming game and he was really excited. I was too. </div>
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Then another call beeped in. It was Nicole. She was supposed to be on a train from New Orleans to Jackson, and I felt I had to answer the call in case there was a snafu. </div>
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OK, back to Joe...but before I could click over, another call beeped in. It was Larry, calling from work. Since he had major surgery less than a month ago, and is back at work on an abbreviated schedule, I was concerned...so I answered the phone. Larry was fine...just had a quick question. </div>
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I sat back, sad and disappointed because even though I had heard all three of their voices, the quality of our conversations was sorely lacking. I felt like they all thought I didn't have time for them. I felt pulled three different ways and it didn't feel good.</div>
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I thought that feeling would leave me when my kids got older. I think back to when I worked full time, Larry worked most nights, the kids were in school/dance/soccer/theatre....getting them fed, where they needed to be on time, and trying to be interested and engaged was a constant challenge. Now they are grown, and I still feel pulled...wanting to give each "child" 100% of me when I can. Yet, they still just get a distracted fraction most of the time. </div>
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When Nicole had her accident, the world pretty much stopped. It's like time stood still as I sat in the corner of her room in the Neuro ICU at New York Presbyterian Hospital. There was nothing else vying for my time and attention. Just Nicole. I focused on her 110%. I learned then that it's possible. Back home, Joe had badly broken a finger, and it really needed surgery to re-set it. But I couldn't control that situation by phone from New York. And Nicole was in critical condition. <i>She needed me more. </i>I had to say a prayer that Joe could/would handle his situation on his own and forget about it. And he did. </div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-7406750881387775102013-09-06T06:28:00.000-07:002013-09-06T06:28:38.025-07:00Attack of the Killer SquirrelIt started innocently enough.<br />
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Larry was suffering from a touch of "cabin fever" after being in for so long following his momentous surgery last week. After dinner, I suggested we go up the road to the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LivingstonFarmersMarket" target="_blank">Livingston Farmers Market</a> to get out of the house and into the fresh air for awhile. The market is from 4pm to 8pm each Thursday, and my neighbor/friend Phyllis Geary had never been, so we picked her up and off we went.<br />
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We arrived about 7:20. The sun was sinking behind the trees and there were still plenty of people there. A wonderful little band was playing, children were running around, and folks were gathered in the wine garden under a canopy of trees to visit and sip on the day's selections from <a href="http://www.colonywinemarket.com/" target="_blank">Colony Wine Market</a>. Scott Jackson poured us all a glass of <a href="http://lavieilleferme.com/our-wines/5F4URE-la-vieille-ferme-ventoux-rouge-2012/" target="_blank">La Vieille Ferme</a> and off we went to see all the goodies the merchants had to offer.<br />
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Sauntering along the row of tents, it was as much about seeing friends and soaking in the atmosphere as it was looking at the items each merchant had for sale. Phyllis bought some fresh tomatoes. I bought a jar of apple butter. Larry was just happy to be on his feet. Just a nice, relaxing evening...sipping on wine and enjoying the ambiance of the market....<br />
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And then, it happened. Out of nowhere (actually from directly above my head), something fell from the tree and square into my face. Something big. Something that hit me with enough force to scratch my chin, bust my lip, and cause me to start bleeding profusely. Something that almost knocked me off my feet. Something that made me Spill. My. Wine.<br />
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My first thought was that it was a really big <strike>pine cone</strike> horse apple or maybe even a branch. (I have been following the facebook posts by the mom of <a href="https://www.facebook.com/TrippHalsteadUpdates?ref=ts&fref=ts" target="_blank">Tripp Halstead</a>, a little boy who was playing on the playground at preschool when a large branch fell on his head, leaving him badly brain damaged.) I'm fully aware that things like that can happen.<br />
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Before I could fully process what happened, a crowd of people gathered around me. I could see the horrified look in their eyes as they saw my bloodied face. That's when people started telling me what fell on my head.<br />
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And just as crazy was the way people wanted to take care of me. Someone handed me a napkin to put on my chin, which was really bleeding badly. Someone else took the napkin from my hand, and poured what little I had left of my wine on it to "disinfect" my chin. Then a wonderful lady told me to come to her booth, because she wanted to put some clay on my chin.<br />
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But it wasn't any ol' clay...it was <a href="http://mississippimiracleclay.com/" target="_blank">Mississippi Miracle Clay</a>. According to their <a href="http://www.mississippimiracleclay.com/" target="_blank">website</a>,<br />
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-11839212403628003692013-08-30T07:02:00.001-07:002013-08-30T08:59:31.359-07:00CELEBRATE!!!Today feels like a celebration! <br />
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Today<em> is</em> a celebration! <br />
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Five years ago today, I woke up ready to celebrate. Larry's birthday had passed a few days before, our anniversary a few days before that. He finally had a clear night on his calendar and we were going out for a celebratory dinner. I cleaned the house so that he'd come home to a nice place, and was heading back to the shower when the phone rang. I almost didn't answer it...I had planned on having a long, relaxing bath before getting dolled up for a nice dinner out. <br />
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But who can ignore a ringing phone? Especially one that has "NYPD" on the caller ID. That's when our world forever changed. "Your daughter was found on the ground by her apartment building." Confusion. "It appears she fell. Off the roof." Whoa. (That's six stories...but who's counting? And she laid on the ground over eight hours before being found...)<br />
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The passing of time took on a whole new meaning. I had to wait until the next day to get a flight to New York--no more planes leaving the afternoon I found out. I had to wait three hours on my layover in Baltimore. I had to wait another three hours at the airport on Long Island when there was a problem with the car service that had been ordered for me. I had to wait 45 minutes to actually see Nicole once I got to the hospital because they were busy putting in a central line, and basically doing all they could to help her stay alive. <br />
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Over the next few weeks, it wasn't a day-by-day wait-and-see. It was an hour-by-hour. No one could say WHEN she'd get off the ventilator...WHEN she'd sit up, WHEN she'd get to go home. A very arrogant (but very brilliant) neurosurgeon told me "it will happen when it happens." That's when time took on a new meaning. I realized things happen at the right time. In God's time. The plan, His plan, is perfect. <br />
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The one year anniversary of Nicole's accident was a milestone, but not a good one for her. She had set high expectations for herself and her recovery, but her body had different ideas. A damaged spinal cord takes an extremely long time to heal. The pathways from the brain to the body had been damaged or even distroyed. There was much more work to do.<br />
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Five years later, her body is catching up. Nicole has learned to celebrate her success and at the same time, accept that her body won't ever be the same. But her body is miraculous, and Nicole has learned to used what she's got to its full advantage. As the fifth anniversary of her accident has been approaching, she's been reflective and she seems to fully realize how much she has accomplished in the past five years. Finally, she's at a place where she feels ready to celebrate.<br />
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Methodist Rehab has a campaign called "Now I Can." They've wanted Nicole to be featured in the campaign for a few years. She wouldn't do it, because she never felt that she could do what she wanted to do. Yet. A few weeks ago, she contacted the folks at Methodist Rehab with a message. "Now I Can." She did a photo shoot with Talamieka and Charles Brice in the dance studio at USM, the place where she once felt the happiest. The photos are amazing, and one of them will soon appear on a huge poster in a hallway at Methodist Rehab. <br />
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We've all learned so much from Nicole and about Nicole in the past five years. I've learned a lot about myself too, and I've learned so many important life lessons. Some of our best friends are those we met after the accident, and mostly because of the accident. While I'd turn back the clock in a heartbeat if I could so that this never happened to Nicole, I don't totally regret it. I had intense time with her, caring for her, that I would not have had if the accident had never happened. We've laughed, cried, cursed and yes, we've celebrated. <br />
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So today, I feel as full of joy as I do on either of my children's birthdays. I guess it's because in a way, Nicole was given a second chance at life. Just last night I read author Anne Lamott's facebook post about the birthday of her son. "God is so good; all the time, every day. Thank you God for being such a Show-off and giving me Samuel John Stephen Lamott. Wow." For me, it's "Thank you God for being such a Show-off and giving me Nicole Elizabeth Marquez. Wow." <br />
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And in keeping with Lamott's latest book "Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers," today is also a day of thanksgiving that Larry is OK following a risky kidney removal surgery earlier this week. I thank God for his thorough doctor, Manisha Sethi, for looking at his blood test results so carefully, and deciding to investigate further when she discovered elevated enzyme levels. The tests she arranged for him to have revealed a mass growing in and on his left kidney. It was fast growing, and as we discovered yesterday, the pathology reports showed it was cancerous. He did great in surgery, and I am hoping he will come home today. <br />
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I am thankful that a surprise trip to the emergency room late yesterday afternoon resulted in my dad getting a once-over by Dr. John Brooks, who told my dad that he needed to double up on his diruetics each morning so he could get excess fluid off. His heart was in good shape, lungs were clear, and after having 70cc's of blood drawn off his knee which he had twisted the day before, he felt much better. I'm thankful that Sarah made a last-minute call to fly from Dallas to Jackson on Tuesday instead of going home to Nashville. She thought she was coming to help me with Larry, but God obviously sent her here to take care of Daddy because I was tied up with Larry. Perfecting timing...perfect plan. <br />
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In the quietness of my home, as I sit here alone except for Roxie at my side, and I'm able to reflect on and savor the reasons to celebrate today. There may be hiccups along the way, but the reality is that our life is full and we are abundantly blessed. <br />
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<em>(Totally shameless plug: Nicole is featured in the September issue of FITNESS magazine...on newstands now! If you know of a group who needs a motivational speaker, that's what she does now...and she does it very, very well! See her </em><a href="http://www.youcantstopthisdancer.com/" target="_blank"><em>website</em></a><em> for more information: </em><a href="http://www.youcantstopthisdancer.com/"><em>www.youcantstopthisdancer.com</em></a><em>.)</em> <br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
Susan<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It was a lovely day, and I made many new friends, including Sandy (above) who hosted this tea as she has done every year for the past 14 years. I was so honored to be included.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The weekend was particularly poignant, as it was my first Mother's Day weekend without my mother. She was in my thoughts all weekend, especially at the tea. I kept thinking about how much I know she would have loved it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">When I returned home safely from my journey, I was greeted with some beautiful flowers from Nicole. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">While I wasn't able to spend my day with my children, I held them in my hearts, and they let me know I was in theirs. My Mother's Day wish for them is that they will be forever blessed with great friends, just as I have been blessed with. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Back to that little ditty we sang in Girl Scouts--we used to sing it in a round. As it turns out, there are many more lyrics to the song, which I found on scoutsongs.com. The lyrics perfectly describe our long-lasting friendship with the Goggins:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Silver is precious,<br />Gold is too.<br />I am precious,<br />and so are you.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Across the land<br />Across the sea<br />Friends forever<br />We will always be.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Blessings to all who read this!</span></div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-49023485702280889722013-03-08T21:38:00.000-08:002013-03-08T21:38:39.467-08:00Life's an AdventureLooking back on life, it's the adventures--planned or spontaneous, grand or small--that we remember the most. It's not the every day mundane routine that we remember from our past. Instead, it is the times when we step out of our ordered world and experience something different, unique, exciting, interesting, fun, scary, unusual or inspiring.<br />
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Today Joe took off with some of his buddies from Millsaps to drive to New Mexico. I learned about this plan on Wednesday night. It just kind of came together during the week. One of the guys has a grandfather who owns a cabin in New Mexico. The plan was to drive to Dallas today (as of 1pm they still weren't on the road), go to a concert in Dallas tonight, spend the night there at one of they guy's parent's home, then drive to New Mexico tomorrow. </div>
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Joe has never been my adventurous child. Unlike Nicole, who is packed and ready to go at a moment's notice, Joe is more of a stick-to-home kind of guy. He likes to go to the beach, and even though he's grown up traveling to Venezuela, he's usually content being at home--as in his own home town. It's familiar, safe and he knows his limits. But as he gets older, I see him wanting to spread his wings a bit more. I'm glad. I want him to see the world and explore new things. I believe it gives a young person a broader perspective and a greater understanding of what's out there. It also makes you appreciate home all the more.</div>
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Nicole has lived in Hattiesburg, Cleveland, MS (two summers), France, Massachusetts, Kentucky and New York. She's traveled solo to Venezuela several times and she's flown all over the country doing motivational speaking. She loves an adventure more than anyone I know. </div>
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Larry's life has been adventurous, too. He's lived in several places in Venezuela as well as England, Miami, Hattiesburg, Brandon, Ridgeland and Madison. He's seen the Beatles in concert in England, Jimi Hendrix in the Hollywood Bowl and The Rolling Stones at a club in Miami. That alone makes him a rock star in Nicole's eyes.<br />
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I never even flew in a plane until I met Larry. Besides trips to my grandparents' homes in W. Monroe and Meridian, my childhood adventures included vacation trips to Six Flags Over Texas, a beach trip to Galveston, Hot Springs, Arkansas, beach trips to Florida (I still remember going to see the mermaids at Weeki Wachi) and an Indian Reservation in Oklahoma. I'm sure there were more adventures, but those are the ones that stick out in my mind. Back then, the destination was the memory, not the journey. I never particularly liked that. But I do vividly remember the Stuckey's along the way, filled with all sorts of goodies and treasures!<br />
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Tomorrow I'm going on my own adventure. It's just an hour away, but I've never really been to Mt. Olive, Mississippi.<br />
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When I go to Mt. Olive tomorrow, it will be to take a basket weaving class from two Amish sisters. My friend Jane Bond got me roped into that one. I did get an assignment out of it, so I'll write an article about my experiences for a magazine. The sisters will be preparing a meal for us, and given my diet for the past month, I'm as excited about that as I am about learning how to weave a basket. </div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-51591630171439649372013-03-06T05:09:00.001-08:002013-03-06T17:03:14.961-08:00Day 24 of 21--The Next Big ThingFor the last 24 days, I've willingly subjected myself to a rigorous 21-day diet designed to cleanse my liver, reset my body's metabolism and to help get my body back into a state of general good health. I blogged about my experience for most of those 21 days, but on the 21st day--the day most would expect a SUPER BLOG stating how <em>I'm so glad I'm done now let's eat cake</em>--I was silent. I didn't feel like I was at the end of something, but rather just beginning. I had blogged earlier about how it takes 21 days of doing something for it to become a habit, so on day 22, I just kept doing what I had been doing. <br />
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Perhaps it is because I was <em>Scared Straight </em>after getting the results from the blood tests I had done at <a href="http://www.enhancedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a>. The numbers showed I was knocking on the door of Type II Diabetes--my mother's killer. The whole reason I started this wellness quest was because I watched what she went through the last six months of her life. I was--and still am--determined not to walk in those shoes. (Which by the way, in the end, it was only one shoe, as she lost her leg due to this horrible disease.) I'm committed.<br />
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With that blogging block behind me, and nothing but improving health in front of me, it's on to <strong>The Next Big Thing!</strong> <br />
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I have been invited by my friend, NancyKay Wessman, to participate in a "blog hop," where bloggers are invited to write about their new/latest writing project. NancyKay wrote about two projects in her blog, <a href="http://www.wessmanwords.com/?p=215">Wessman Words</a>. The first was about her recently published book, <em>You Can Fix the Fat From Childhood and Other Heart Disease Risks, Too</em>. She also wrote about her current project that deals with public health issues surrounding Hurricane Katrina. <br />
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Now it's my turn. Time for me to get busy on my Next BigThing. The request to participate in this "blog hop" included a series of questions to answer. I believe the best way for me to do that is in an interview format, with Me interviewing Myself. Here we go!<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> What is the working title of your book?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> You Can't Stop This Dancer or Every Step of the Way<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> Where did the idea of the book originate?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> From a daily blog of sorts (<a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicolemarquez">www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicolemarquez</a>) that I begain writing in September 2008. <br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> Under what genre does the book come?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> Creative non-fiction, and perhaps inspirational/motivational/spiritual<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> Which actors would you choose to play your characters in a movie rendition? <br />
<strong>Myself: </strong>That's a tough one. Ask me again next year, when the book is published and Hollywood is knocking on my door!<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> What is the one-sentence synopsis of your book?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> The story of lessons learned following the unthinkable, a mother & daughter journey.<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> Will your book be self-published, published by an independent publisher or represented by an agency?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> My best guess is that it will be published by an independent publisher. <br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> How long did it take you to write the first draft of your manuscript?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> I'm still writing it. <br />
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<strong>Me: </strong>To what other books within your genre would you compare this story?<br />
<strong>Myself: </strong><em>Traveling with Pomegranates</em> by Sue Monk Kidd.<em> </em>It was recommended to me by <a href="http://susancushman.com/writing-on-wednesday-the-next-big-thing-authors-blog-hop/">Susan Cushman</a> because of the way it was written. It's a mother-daughter story with every other chapter written by the mother, and the in-between chapters written by the daughter. Same story. Same experiences. Two different perspectives. <br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> Who or what inspired you to write this story?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> My incredible daugher, <a href="http://www.youcantstopthisdancer.com/">Nicole Marquez</a>. <br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> What else about your book might pique your reader's interest?<br />
<strong>Myself:</strong> Nicole fell six stories off the roof of her NY apartment building and today she is walking! I think that alone is enough to pique anyone's interest!<br />
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I'm inviting others to participate on this "blog hop" so we can keep it going. With any luck, you'll see these foks write about their Next Big Thing in the coming days:<br />
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Beth Kander <a href="http://littlepixiemagic.blogspot.com/">http://littlepixiemagic.blogspot.com</a><br />
Nicole Marquez <a href="http://www.youcantstopthisdancer.blogspot.com/">www.youcantstopthisdancer.blogspot.com</a><br />
Bill Torgerson <a href="http://thetorg.com/">http://thetorg.com</a><br />
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UPDATE: Turns out Bill has already participated. If you are at all interested in Vikings, you'll love his blog:<br />
http://thetorg.com/writing/not-published-yet-a-viking-on-the-subway/<br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
Susan<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-480497846186875602013-03-01T07:13:00.000-08:002013-03-01T07:13:08.629-08:00Day 19 of 21It's hard to believe I've made it this far!<br />
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I read once that it takes 21 days of doing something for it to become a habit. I guess we are all pretty hard-headed. Our brains are not so easily programmed.<br />
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Think about it. We all have our morning routine. Mine was get up, make coffee. Drink coffee. Drink more coffee.<br />
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Now it's different. I still make coffee--for Larry.<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-12678884229077722332013-02-27T18:13:00.000-08:002013-02-27T18:13:43.154-08:00Day 17 of 21I feel great! I went back to <a href="http://www.enhancedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a> yesterday and it was determined that I had lost 4.5 lbs of fat. I've also lost a half pound of muscle, so I need to work to get it back. They all commented that I looked thinner. I hope they weren't just being polite.<br />
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The bad news is that the blood work they did (several vials worth) was analyzed and processed and Kelly went over the report with me. It was not good. There were several categories, with columns for high risk (red), moderate risk (yellow) and optimum (green). Most of my labs landed in the red column. Ouch.<br />
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I'm knocking on the door of diabetes and heart disease. How can that be when I feel so good? Well, there are things going on in my body--bad things. Things that are brewing and building up to a coronary episode.<br />
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Unless I work to turn it around, and that's exactly what I'm doing.<br />
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So, this 21-day detox/cleanse is just the beginning of the way I'll have to live the rest of my life. My days of cookies and cake and ice cream are over.<br />
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I went to cover Michelle Obama's visit to Clinton today and listened to her and Rachael Ray talk about feeding kids nutritious foods and how it will help them excel in school, then in life. I'm jumping on that bandwagon! (By the way, being on the White House press list was pretty cool!) My article about her visit will be in the April issue of <a href="http://www.eatdrinkmississippi.com/">eat.drink.Mississippi</a> magazine.<br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
Susan<br />
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I had a guest for breakfast, and I made a wonderful omelet for both him and Larry. Sauteed onions and red bell pepper, a handful of fresh spinach and chopped mushrooms, and a sprinkling of chopped tomatoes and feta cheese. I used four eggs and split it in half. No, I didn't eat a bite--eggs are not on this 21-day cleanse. <br />
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I also made our guest toast using sprouted Ezekial bread, along with some Trader Joe's pumpkin butter. No bread for Larry or me.<br />
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Finally, I made a big fruit bowl with apples, blueberries, strawberries, grapes, rasperries and bananas. You guessed it, that's what I ate.<br />
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Both Larry and our guest had coffee. I made a pot of tea and was perfectly satisfied.<br />
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For lunch, I made Larry a piece of tilapia topped with fresh tarragon and lemon slices, steamed broccoli and a green salad. I can't eat fish, so I substituted a cup of the Indian bean soup for the fish. I got my protein from the black eyed peas in the soup.<br />
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We went out to dinner with my Dad last night. We chose <a href="http://aladdininjackson.com/contact.html">Aladdin</a>, because they have several menu options that Larry and I can eat. Larry chose the chicken schwarma salad with a side of tabouli, and I had the sauteed veggie plate with rice. We normally take a bottle of wine with us to Aladdin, but last night it was water and lemon. I left full and very satisfied.<br />
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Tomorrow I go back in to <a href="http://www.enhancedwellness.cim/">Enhanced Wellness</a> for a follow up to see how I'm doing. I can't wait to see how my numbers are doing and what the scales say! <br />
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I can do this. <em>I will do this.</em><br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
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I've gone through about three dozen organic lemons so far. At a dollar a lemon, the lemon juice I'm squeezing is more expensive than the wine I drank pre-detox. I hope my liver is happy.<br />
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This past week has nearly driven me to drink--but it hasn't. My day got off to a bad start Wednesday when I discovered water dripping down my bathroom wall and puddling on the floor. Seems our water heater was going out. About $900 later, we have a new water heater in our attic. Come see her--she's a beauty! I had a lot of work all week, so that's a good thing, but it kept me busy as I raced to make deadlines. Finding time to prepare appropriate detox meals was a challenge, but I managed to do it. I even cooked for Larry.<br />
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As we see the last days of winter, I am grateful I live in the South, and not where all that snow is that I see on TV. We've certainly had our share of rain, but I'm hoping for sunnier days ahead so that I can get outside and work in the yard. I am feeling very sedentary and need to move!<br />
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The good thing is that I don't ever really feel hungry and my craving for carbs and sweets is going away. I'm actually looking forward to going to the grocery store later today to load up on more produce for the coming week.<br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
Susn<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-64388719118680581842013-02-22T16:47:00.001-08:002013-02-22T16:47:46.408-08:00Day 12 of 21What a difference a few days makes. Sometimes, all it takes is finally making up your mind to do something. I had made up my mind. Knowing I had the support and encouragement from the folks at <a href="http://www.enhancedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a> certainly helped. And then there's the accountability. I have to go back on Tuesday to check my progress. I want them to be happy with my progress.<br />
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But ultimately, the only person I need to please is myself. And I am pleased. I'm no longer puffy from water retention/ My face looks slimmer. My pants aren't as tight. I have a long way to go, but I've gotten a good, strong start.<br />
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Having a "buddy" to go through this with is great. NancyKay Wessman and I are going through the same program at the same time, so it's nice to be able to pick up the phone and ask how she's doing or get feedback on recipes tried, etc.<br />
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I'm deviating from just diet talk this morning to pay tribute to a wonderful person who lost her battle with cancer yesterday. Norma Carroll Ezell passed away yesterday. She was Nicole and Joseph's third grade teacher, and she new perfectly how to handle two kids who didn't exactly "fit the mold." We have always given her credit for discovering Nicole's acting abilities. She celebrated it by putting Nicole in every classroom skit and stage play the entire school year. It was that year that Nicole was cast in the PBS series "Funnybones" as one of three child actors. She recognized that Joe was with the wrong teacher when he was in the third grade and helped us get him transferred to her class, where he thrived. When both of them look back to the people who were their real champions, Norma Carroll Ezell will be on that list. She'll be missed.<br />
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I feel great! I'm eating delicious, clean food and I'm losing weight. My energy is increasing daily and I can tell a difference in my skin--it looks better, too!<br />
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Larry is also doing a 17-day intensive as I'm doing this 21-day detox. His diet and mine don't always jive. He can drink coffee, I can't. We are both to drink green tea. He can eat fish, I can't. I can eat legumes, he can't. I can't eat potatoes, he can't.<br />
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No worries. I can cook for both of our diets, because it's so important for both of us to be healthy. Last night's dinner for Larry was totally different from mine. I had Mexican Potato Salad from the Core Restore book, and Larry had a green salad, roasted brussel sprouts and tilapia.<br />
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It's always good to have something to motivate you to stick with a diet plan. My motivation is this:</div>
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I HATE how we both look in this photo taken back in December. We just look overweight and unhealthy. That's NOT how I want us to look in the myriad of photos that will be snapped next October when my niece, Lauren, gets married in Nashville! Her fiance, David, put a ring on it!</div>
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But the biggest motivation of all is good health. I want to feel good and be much less dependent on daily medications.<br />
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I can do this. <i>I will do this.</i><br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-55944076154628077482013-02-20T09:47:00.002-08:002013-02-21T05:52:37.022-08:00Day 10 of 21This is a lifestyle change. <br />
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At almost halfway in to this 21-day detox/cleanse, I'm seeing that the things I'm doing now can so easily be carried forward after this leg of the journey is over. <br />
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I mentioned the wonderful chicken we baked in the <a href="http://susanmarquez.blogspot.com/2013/02/day-8-of-21.html">blog post</a> I did on Monday, and the hummus I wrote about yesterday. So, now it's time to write about the most amazing soup ever! It's the Indian Bean Soup, and it's just chocked full of goodness, not to mention ingredients I've never used before. <br />
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Anything that has onions, bell pepper, and potatoes is good. Add olive oil, organic low-sodium vegetable stock, coriander, paprika and curry paste, and you're really cooking. But this soup also has turnips and parsnips, two things I'm not real familiar with. I know turnip <span style="color: #38761d;"><strong>greens</strong></span>, but the turnip root is a different matter. And, I have to admit, I had no idea what a parsnip looked like. I had to really scour the produce department to find some. <br />
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For educational purposes <em>(because, aren't we all really learning a lot during this journey?!),</em> I referred to Wikipedia and learned that the parsnip is richer in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitamin" title="Vitamin">vitamins</a> and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietary_mineral" title="Dietary mineral">minerals</a> than its close relative, the carrot. It is particularly rich in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Potassium" title="Potassium">potassium</a> with 600 mg per 100 g. The parsnip is also a good source of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietary_fiber" title="Dietary fiber">dietary fiber</a>. A 100-g parsnip contains 75 <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Calorie" title="Calorie">Calories</a> (230 kJ) of energy. <br />
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You're welcome.<br />
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I will be incorporating all these recipes into my "normal" life when this 21 days is over. <br />
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I can do this. <em>I will do this.</em><br />
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Blessing to all who read this!<br />
Susan<br />
<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-51072078670620320202013-02-19T05:50:00.002-08:002013-02-19T05:50:36.053-08:00Day 9 of 21I can't believe I'm into the second week of this journey, and I'm doing great!<br />
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I went to our book club meeting last night, where everyone brings an appetizer and most folks are drinking wine or other adult beverages. A test.<br />
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NancyKay and I had a plan. I went to her house yesterday afternoon where she made hummus from scratch. I have bought Sabra hummus for years, but this put that in the shade.<br />
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As a matter of fact, it was the best hummus I've ever eaten, hands down. And the best part of all is that it was super-simple to make. We took the hummus along with a tray full of cut veggies (carrots, cucumbers, celery, red and green bell peppers and turnips). Despite the table at book club being filled with all manner of delicious treats, the hummus was a big with everyone. Someone had brought cut up fruit, so I made a small plate piled high with veggies and hummus and fruit, and that was my dinner. I was perfectly satisfied.<br />
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The hummus recipe can be found on page 36 of the Core Restore patient guide:<br />
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While NancyKay was making the hummus, I ate a bowl of the Indian Bean Soup, a recipe also found in the guide. It was delicious. I'd order that in any restaurant.<br />
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Being around ladies drinking wine at our book club didn't bother me either. NancyKay made up some of our green tea-lemon juice-maple syrup blend and took that to book club in a gallon jug. We sipped it out of wine glasses!<br />
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I'm going to meet with <a href="http://enhancedwellness.com/staff/kelly-engelmann-cfnp/">Kelly Engelmann</a> at <a href="http://enhancedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a> this afternoon. I am looking forward to standing on the big scales there and seeing those numbers go <span style="font-size: large;">d-</span><br />
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I can do this. <i>I will do this. </i><br />
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Blessings to all who read this!<br />
Susan<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-77363560711225647552013-02-18T06:34:00.001-08:002013-02-18T06:34:16.834-08:00Day 8 of 21Day one of week two!<br />
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So far, so good. I'm 12 pounds down, but much of that is water weight.<br /><br />Yesterday was a day of rest. Larry was off work, and we just pretty much took it easy all day. I don't have the energy I had hoped I would, but I feel that will come...I'm eating good food now.<br />
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People have asked me if Larry is doing the diet as well. He's not. But he is doing another diet--one his cardiologist suggested to him. (Make that <i>strongly encourage</i>...). It's the <a href="http://www.the17daydiet.com/">"17 Day Diet" plan</a>. And unlike the 21-day program I'm on, this is just the first 17 days...there are two more rounds that follow.<br />
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Yesterday he baked an amazing chicken for our lunch. It was a big ol' roaster I bought at Fresh Market--no hormones, no antibiotics--you get the drill. And it was sooooo good!</div>
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So, in addition to my detox buddy, Nancykay Wessman, Larry has joined the ranks! </div>
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Blessings to all who read this!</div>
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09636263790355946158noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4296217916249260747.post-12322594775442410102013-02-17T12:37:00.000-08:002013-02-17T12:37:38.694-08:00Day 7 of 21I'm one-third of the way! I'm seven days into my 21-day detox/cleanse. I'm seven days into a healthier lifestyle. And I'm down some pounds already!<br />
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So, that's one week down and two to go. Yesterday I started eating "real" food...and it was a little harder than I thought. I ate a small bowl of fruit for breakfast--apple, blueberry and strawberry. After breakfast, I met up with Jonni Webb at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Village-Beads/135686637357">Village Beads in Ridgeland</a>. I stayed busy all morning, stringing beads and creating a necklace and earrings (the earrings feature pottery by <a href="http://jrwebbpottery.com/">jr webb pottery, Jonni's pottery business.</a>).<br />
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Wouldn't you know we met a lady at Village Beads who had been a patient at <a href="http://dinner%20was%20sauteed%20onions%2C%20zucchini%20and%20red%20bell%20pepper--delicious.%20i%20also%20had%20a%20salad%20on%20the%20side%20and%20i%20put%20olive%20oil%20and%20balsamic%20on%20it.%20here%27s%20the%20kicker.%20the%20balsamic%20was%20too%20sweet%21%20after%20a%20week%20of%20no%20sugar%2C%20i%27m%20wondering%20what%27s%20happening%20with%20my%20taste%20buds./">Enhanced Wellness</a>. She said she used to refer to <a href="http://enhancedwellness.com/staff/kelly-engelmann-cfnp/">Kelly Engelmann</a> as "the witch doctor." However, she said that when she was going, she felt better than she ever had, and talking to me today made her remember that. She says she wants to go back! Do it Pat!!! :-)<br />
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After beading, Jonni and went to lunch with our new beading friend at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/signasrestaurant">Signa Grill in Ridgeland</a>, where I ordered a half salad with chopped lettuce, tomatoes, pepperoncinis, green and black olives. The dressing, however, kind of tripped me up. It was a shallot vinaigrette, which should have been fine, but for some reason, the acid of the vinegar was too much in my mouth. Are my taste buds changing? I ate a little over half of it, but that seemed to be fine.<br />
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After lunch I went grocery shopping. First to Fresh Market, then to Kroger. Eating healthy is NOT cheap--I bought the organic version of just about everything on my list, an that's always more expensive. My kitchen looks like a farmer's market. We have to eat all this produce this week or it will go bad. But the cost of the groceries is offset by so many other things: no snack foods, eating at home more than eating out, and of course, the long-term effects of (hopefully) getting off the blood-pressure medicine I've taken for 24 years and fewer doctor visits in the future.<br />
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<i>(I need to add here that I was pretty disappointed in Fresh Market's produce section. Most everything except a small section was "conventionally-grown" produce. That means it was grown using pesticides and fertilizer. Also, the vast majority of the produce was from other countries. We should eat local and what's in season, and that's not what they offered. Boo on Fresh Market for not offering more locally-harvested, organic options. Kroger really beat you out on that level. There wasn't much I couldn't find in the ever-expanding organic section of Kroger.)</i><br />
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I wanted to get some exercise in today, but by the time I got home from grocery shopping and putting up all the groceries, I was beat. I think I'm a little weak from lack of food... So, instead, I smeared some of the almond butter I ground up at Fresh Market on a plain rice cake and savored it for a snack. I really liked the textural quality of the rice cake, and the almond butter was really tasty.<br />
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Dinner was sauteed onions, zucchini and red bell pepper--delicious. I also had a salad on the side and I put olive oil and balsamic on it.<br />
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Here's the kicker. The balsamic was TOO SWEET! After a week of no sugar, I'm wondering what's happening with my taste buds. In hindsight, I should have cooked up a chicken breast, but I didn't think about it. Tonight, we're having roasted chicken. I bought a whole roasting chicken from Fresh Market--all natural, with no antibiotics, etc.<br />
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It's almost easier NOT eating than dealing with adding food, but I am going to learn how to make this work for us. I think the trick is cooking way more than you need, then heating it up for meals later in the week.<br />
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I've made it through the first five days and for the most part (about 95%), I stuck right with the plan. The scales don't lie. I've lost a LOT of water weight. I've been reading about water retention, specifically, the <a href="http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/187978.php">dangers of water retention</a>. It's not a good thing.<br />
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So, now I've gotten so much of the water off, and my liver is beginning to rid itself of the many toxins that I'm sure it was chocked full of. After all this, you can rest assured I'll stop eating things that will poison my liver!<br />
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I'm venturing out today...first to Village Bead where I'm meeting my friend, <a href="http://www.jrwebbpottery.com/">Jonni Webb</a>. We took a class there a few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. We'll bead for a couple of hours, then go to lunch. In a restaurant! We're going to eat a salad at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/signasrestaurant">Signa's Grill in Ridgeland.</a> They have great salads, and I can easily find one that fits the "allowed" choices on my food plan. </div>
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Yesterday, after three days of NO FOOD, I was able to eat. Vegetables only.<br />
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I woke up and drank my "regular" concoction of fresh-squeezed organic lemon juice and Grade B organic maple syrup mixed into a a mug of hot water. It's surprisingly good, and fulfills my need to sip on something hot in the morning. While it's not as good as coffee, it's a decent substitute.<br />
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Lunch was steamed cabbage and sauteed onions. I seasoned it up with tumeric (it has anti-inflammatory properties), celery seed and sea salt and organic ground black pepper.<br />
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I added the "shake" from the detox kit I got at <a href="http://www.enhncedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a>. I had to drink one in the morning and one last night. I wasn't so crazy about it. I mixed it with water, because I can't have anything else right now, and the flavor was less than appealing. But it is chocked full of the nutrients my body needs at this point, so I chugged it down. I also had to take two of the gi-normous capsules in the morning and again at night. I felt a little bit nauseated for a brief time yesterday but that passed. </div>
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Still, all in all, it's going well. I was busy working yesterday, writing two articles and doing research for another. I think staying busy is a good thing, but staying busy at home is even better. I'm thankful I work out of my home right now. This would be really hard if I had to go out in the world every day.</div>
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Larry has already joked about how he got me a big box of chocolates. Funny. <i>Not.</i><br />
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This hasn't been so hard. As long as I sip on the "magic juice" every ten to 15 minutes, I've been able to keep hunger at bay. I did go to bed hungry last night. Not too bad, but I really wanted something to eat.<br />
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Today, I can eat vegetables only. Oddly, the thing I crave most is steamed cabbage, followed by roasted brussels sprouts--two things I don't eat that much... but the truth is that I'd be happy to eat just about anything today!<br />
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So, what changes to I see after three days of drinking lemon juice, water, green tea and maple syrup? I can see the difference in my hands and feet. They don't look puffy. I had noticed in the past couple of months that my hands looked, well, fat. More often than not I could not get my rings on in the morning. Now they are loose on my finger. Larry says my face looks thinner. (Less puffy?) I was evidently carrying a lot of water weight. Since this time last week, I've released ten pounds.<br />
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Knowing that I'm doing this under medical supervision of <a href="http://enhancedwellness.com/staff/kelly-engelmann-cfnp/">Kelly Engelmann</a> at <a href="http://enhancedwellness.com/">Enhanced Wellness</a> is comforting. I know that this isn't just a way to get weight off, but I'm actually getting rid the harmful toxins that have been building up in my liver and elsewhere in my body. I'm making sure I retain the all my muscle mass (78.5 pounds of my total body weight is muscle) while losing fat.<br />
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